Is It OK for Older Men to Pursue Younger Women?
#1: They usually have more stamina.
In general, older men don’t have to worry about younger women being able to keep up with them, or being able to fully satisfy them. Even though it may be difficult or impossible for older men to keep up with younger women, most men don’t mind the favorable dynamic.
#2: No desire for immediate, long-term commitment.
No two women are exactly alike regardless of age, but older women tend to be more concerned with official partnership and future planning than younger women. Again, most older men enjoy being in a scenario like this more.
#3: Mid-life crisis.
Dating and/or sleeping with younger women has got to be close to #1 on the list of things to do as soon as you begin a mid-life crisis.
#4: They’re optimistic.
Naturally, older women have experienced more disappointment and cruelty in life, so they’re (perhaps rightly) less optimistic than younger women. Most men prefer to be in the presence of positivity, even if it isn’t always prudent.
#5: They’re perky.
This is probably the first thing that jumps into most people’s minds when they think about why older men desire young women. It’s obvious, but quite true.
#6: The teacher/student fantasy.
This usually benefits both parties involved, but it’s still a major reason that older men need to date a younger woman at least once in life. It seems like the mutual benefits make this one more acceptable.
#7: Easy split.
It’s just easier to break-up with a younger woman, and it’s much easier to handle it when a younger woman breaks up with an older man. In fact, sometimes ending things in the morning is what both parties have in mind.
#8: They’re motivating.
In the classic book Think and Grow Rich, it is written that most men experience the most successful part of their lives when they are trying to impress a younger woman. Enough said (or written).
#9: They’re virtually anonymous.
Having completely different social circles is the dream of many older men and many younger women alike. Perhaps there are more mutual benefits to this sort of relationship than you’d expect?
#10: They’re idealistic.
Again, younger women haven’t lived long enough to realize how un-ideal the world often is. However, most men just appreciate being with someone who still sees the world from such an ideal viewpoint.
#11: They’re flexible.
In addition to having more stamina, most younger women tend to be more flexible between the sheets than many older women. It is what it is, but, as mentioned, it’s not a Universal rule or truth.
#12: They’re less work.
Oftentimes, no work is required at all. Yet, younger women are usually more free to do as they please as well, so this seems like another mutually beneficial aspect.
#13: They’re somewhat irresponsible.
As long as both partners benefit from not being expected to be overly responsible, then there’s nothing wrong with this (as long as no one’s safety is being neglected or put at risk!).
#14: The elder angle.
In general, the older you are, the wiser you are. Although there are many, many exceptions to this notion, younger women seem to be more apt to give older men the benefit of the doubt when it comes to knowledge and guidance. As long as this trust is warranted, this angle will benefit both partners.
#15: They enhance ego.
Older men usually feel prouder in public when they have a younger woman at their side, and even prouder in general. Yet, younger women often feel proud of having an older man on their arm as well.
#16: Less chance of rejection.
Younger women cut men more slack, which means there are less things which will result in immediate or eventual rejection and/or embarrassment.
#17: They’re adventurous.
Younger women do tend to get older men to be a little more active and outgoing than they normally would be, and older men appreciate this (whether they’re willing to admit it or not).