It’s not every day that you run into a Tiger on the runway. A fierce, bold, and self-assured siren of beauty and grace. That’s what my Dad called my Mom. She was a force to be reckoned with….Still is.
I guess you’d call her an Alpha. She definitely is an “A-type” personality. She doesn’t take crap from anyone and does what she wants. With true style.
I bet you’ve seen a lady or two like this. Some chick who just makes your jaw drop no matter what sex you are. She’s so all-out, that you wonder what she put in her Wheaties. And if you haven’t, or don’t know if you have, and want to now what she looks like, here’s a few clues:
1. She’s Confident From Day One
The way she holds her head is higher than the clouds. She isn’t entirely cocky about it, but she knows her worth. She won’t be used or abused because she won’t let anyone walk all over her. She will do what she has to to get whatever job she needs to get done, done. She won’t throw it in your face how good she is–she’ll simply prove it to you. Don’t get in her way, though, because she’ll run you over like a steam engine.
2. She Seems To Do Things Effortlessly
An alpha woman always throws the best parties. Every detail is accounted for, every person is happy, and she’s enjoying herself every step of the way. She proves that one can put together something that would otherwise seem impossible, and do it with such panache, that you wonder if she’s from another planet. This is her bread and butter. She works so well when she’s showing others how much she cares because she really does are. It doesn’t matter what sort of things happen along the way—life is full of ups and downs—it’s how you weather them that makes the difference. She’ll never go to extremes—she’ll only do what’s necessary to make things wonderful..
3. She Doesn’t Compete With The Other Ladies in The Room
She treats everyone with compassion and care. There is no reason to prove that she is better than anyone else because she isn’t insecure about her capabilities. She’ll never tear someone else down for her own self-indulgence. It just doesn’t make any sense to her. She’d much rather compete against her own standards—raising her own bar and setting her own goals. These are what satisfy her the most. Nothing on the outside bothers her because that’s someone else.
4. She Honors What You Have To Say
No matter what sort of form of response she gets from someone, she respects it. Especially constructive criticism. She, in fact, wants to hear the truth from you because that’s what she’s giving you. Everyone has room to improve, and she’ll be the first to admit it about herself. She accepts what you have to say because it’s not upsetting. The truth is the truth, and there doesn’t have to be any emotions attached to that. She will also balance out what is said, by both her and you, and see all sides of an argument. There isn’t really negative or positive, it just all is.
5. She Is In Touch With Her Emotions
She knows how to walk into a room and see immediately what is going on. She will hone in on who needs what, and how to best serve that situation. This is kind of her super power. She has the intuition of a fox, and will follow her nose. She knows if she’ll get hurt by someone, if someone will be advantageous to her life, or if love is in the air. She cares not about the swinging back and forth of drama—she is plain and open, and calm in her actions. She has seen what it’s like for others to act emotional, and she doesn’t see that fitting in with her life. She won’t be cold, however. She is accessible, warm, and inviting. She’ll inspire loyalty and confidence in whomever is around her.
6. She Knows How To Follow The Middle Path
Everything in balance will be her motto. There are no rights and wrongs, just simply ares. She knows where her lines are in the sand and won’t allow them to be crossed. This can be in a personal situation or professional…It doesn’t matter. She believes in her own self-worth, and won’t let anyone take that away. She knows when she needs to walk away from a situation and when she needs to take a break. She knows when it’s time to go for another round, and when it’s up to her to fight. Whatever side she lands on, she will always believe it’s what she wants to do.
So, if you run into an Alpha woman, don’t be scared. She might be a Tiger, but she’s a balanced, loving, compassionate one. And it’s worth hanging around because she might turn into your best friend.
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