It’s common for human beings to contemplate what makes them compelling or appealing early in life, but it seems that as people grow older they don’t think about or consider these things nearly as much. However, perhaps this should come as no surprise considering the plethora of distractions in everyday modern life; nevertheless, it’s still important to acknowledge and reflect on the unique characteristics that make other people like you, and like being around you. Please continue reading to better comprehend why other human beings adore you, and to better understand why you adore other people.
When a human being is comfortable being their natural authentic self—when they’re alone at home or when they’re out with a group in public—then they are usually adored by many people. Individuals tend to respect people who don’t deceive others as to their true character, and this respect oftentimes escalates into fondness.
Honesty demonstrates confidence in addition to honour, and, again—people tend to respect and like individuals who don’t deceive others. It’s difficult to find human beings who don’t find honesty appealing and attractive.
A sense of humour can alleviate the stress of everyone in the room (or everyone bearing witness, if online humour is taking place). For women in particular, a Stanford study has shown girls hooked up to fMRIs (functional magnetic resonance imaging machine) experienced more positive emotions when exposed to humour. So, humour is a positive and attractive quality to say the least.
Selfless human beings are capable of significantly improving the world, and this is a highly attractive character trait to possess. These individuals earn respect and adoration from countless people: some notable selfless individuals are Jesus, Buddha, Ghandi, Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela, and Martin Luther King, Jr.
Evolved thinking is vital in the modern world, and human beings must be open to any and all new information and data that presents itself in order to make the best decisions possible. Plus, being open-minded often eliminates stereotypical, bias, or negative thinking in general—which many people will find greatly appealing.
Kind and helpful human beings make life better for countless other people, so it isn’t difficult to imagine why many individuals would find this character trait appealing. Global issues could be solved so much more efficiently and effectively if everyone in the world was benevolent.
Even though many people in the modern world seem to envy boastful celebrities with few redeeming qualities, when it comes to individuals who they actually interact with in reality, most human beings enjoy being around people who are quite humble and modest. In fact, many people realize that humble individuals make the world a much better place as well—they just go about their business differently than rock stars or movie stars.
#8: Calm complexity.
“True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep.”—Ellen G. White
#9: Wise devotion.
True love “looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.”—Ellen G. White
#10: Sparking inspiration.
Most people know at least one person who always seems to inspire positivity or innovation in others. It should go without saying this a very appealing characteristic to possess.
#11: Role models.
If a person is an ideal mother, father, sister, brother, or grandparent, this is often enough on its own to make many people adore them (and rightly so).
It’s vital to be able to adapt to changing circumstances in the modern world, so people who are able to do so seamlessly are admired and adored by virtually everyone.