Self-Help

Strong Women Would Rather Be Alone Than Spend Their Time with Assholes

  • Albatraoz
  • Ursu Zgubilitic

    Pretty dumb. Women can be assholes too, so same story can be written from men’s point of view.. Again, dumb, silly stupid point of view.. 😀

    • Boy Elvis

      “Don’t date assholes” is dumb? The only dumb thing I see here is you, sunshine.

  • Ursu Zgubilitic

    And.. second opinion.. this kind of shit is written by people who are unable to get involved into a relationship. Unable to make compromises .. to understand that they, themselves can be great assholes and they simply put all the guilt for something being wrong on the other’s guy shoulder.

    • Kim Mann

      You are the very reason we prefer our own company!!

  • Cameron Rowe

    In other words, I finally wised up after several bad boys used me as a piece of meat….

  • buffy3kins

    It’s more about being smart enough to stay away from the losers on both sides of the equation. Both men and women can be domineering and spiteful. Many can find that way to compromise with lots of give and take so both people can find some happiness in life.

  • Russell Gunn

    It is exactly the same for strong men I am here to tell you

  • Julia Caldwell

    Men have learned to be condescending and don’t value women. So many women lie just to keep a man’s ego in tact, when all they’re doing is delaying their own happiness. Women will still be alone and unhappy after they give their all to the children that comes from having relationships with men. Please don’t take too long being good to yourself and loving who you are. If you do, you have no one to blame but yourself. Marriage or relationships have never been all they’re cut out to be, it’s mainly a fantasy that will never come true and who benefits, the man you give your all to and he sees you as his maid and caregiver,

  • DonKrieger

    Why does the cover photo have to carry a message diametrically opposed to the content of the headline?

    Look at that face and tell me that a young beautiful woman with pouty lips and perfect makeup fits your picture of a strong woman.

    And you who look like that, I apologize and hope that when I follow the link, I will get to see your perfect tits.

    • Kim Mann

      It is because of dick heads like you that we tend to prefer our own company. What the f*ck do tits have to do with inner strength you retard????

      • DonKrieger

        Hi Kim,

        Please read what I wrote again, Kim.
        I agree with you which is what I state in the first 2 sentences.
        The 3rd sentence is pure irony — nothing more.

        Best – Don

      • Max Chotoo

        You arude person go to church

    • Heather Erskine Hinckley

      Women can be beautiful and strong…we are complex creatures and you are extremely limited in thinking the picture of a strong woman isn’t also beautiful…demeaning and sexualizing….you are the problem

      • DonKrieger

        Dear Heather,

        Of course you are correct that women can be beautiful and strong. But your comment is irrelevant. The article is not you; it is about you. The publishers are ceasing on the sexism of the readers to promote the article. It was the “come-on” for the article that my post is about.

  • CL Ngwe-Nwi

    I learnt this lesson quite early on in life. After seeing how guys used perfectly good girls as piece of meat! I’ve always valued my time as single and enjoyed the freedom. Having a great partner is also well worth the wait. I Just chillaxed and weighed the shit out of suitors. lol. I believe it works better with a change of perspective for those who see companionship as the ultimate goal or the only path to happiness. I’m Proud to be one strong woman blogging to bring others on board.

  • Deena Patrick

    After reading this article, I had to look up the definition of a strong woman and what exactly defines one. Here is what I found, 1- A strong woman knows she has enough strength for her journey, but a praying woman knows it’s in her journey where she will gain her strength.2- A confident woman is- I am strong I’ve been through a lot in my life and I am still standing. 3- Sometimes the strongest woman are the ones who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors, and fights battles that nobody knows about it. 4-A strong woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted, she won’t fix it or beg, she’ll just walk away. 5- A strong woman loves, forgive, walks away, lets go, tries again, perseveres…no matter what life throws at her. 6-A strong woman work’s out everyday to keep her body in shape, but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape. 7-Be a strong woman, so your daughter will have a role model and your son will know what to look for in a woman, when he is a man. There were many more, but where a strong person fits in depends on the individual, and their experience they been through. This article is like being on a roller coaster with twist turns, Being a strong woman has its advantages, you can date but you really don’t need to because you can get by. The Buddha states, spend time with your self or something you enjoy, or with someone. It is also okay to be openly to dating and remaining single? Here is the first twist turn, they are saying it’s okay to date as long as you don’t get married? The second twist turn, this is why strong woman don’t waste their time on jerks? Some woman like jerks, I am sure you heard people say, oh she’s okay but he is a real jerk. the third twist, is that a strong woman should know when she is being deceived or gong to be deceived? Does this mean in her past or her presence (future)? The last twist so it is much better to be alone, but not really? I really don’t know what to make of this, but after looking up the definition of a strong woman like # 5 that best describes me, I don’t consider myself a strong person but maybe logical one, empath, considerate, to every circumstance I encounter however I do not allow anyone to take advantage, I don’t think that’s a strong woman, Thank You for Sharing.

    • Sonya

      The meaning that I am getting is …
      For – “It is also okay to be openly to dating and remaining single?”
      I see the meaning of what is being said is that it is okay to date but it is ALSO okay to remain single, that just because a lot of people need to be in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to be. Some people don’t have the strength to be alone and are unhappy to be alone, it is good to be capable of being happy alone without feeling lonely, but it doesn’t mean you have to be, see it as a choice that you can be happy in either situation.
      For -“The second twist turn, this is why strong woman don’t waste their time on jerks? Some woman like jerks, I am sure you heard people say, oh she’s okay but he is a real jerk. the third twist, is that a strong woman should know when she is being deceived or gong to be deceived? Does this mean in her past or her presence (future)?”
      I see the meaning of what is being said is that strong women have usually had at some point experience of “jerks”, therefore they know what to now look out for and if they realise that a guy is a “jerk” they have the strength to walk away and will not waste their time with guys like this.
      For-“The last twist so it is much better to be alone, but not really? ”
      I see the meaning of what is being said is that a strong woman can be alone, is not afraid of being alone, they know that it is better to be alone than be in a bad relationship, and they do not perceive being alone as the same as being lonely as they have the strength to go it alone. It does not mean they have to be alone just that they can be.

      • Deena Patrick

        Thank You for explaining, everyone has their own interpretation when reading the same article. This Is true for some people who can get by, being with themselves, and it is also true that some people do not like being alone. This article uses the word assholes, I used jerk, but even that word is wrong. I don’t believe all strong woman look to avoid certain people like classified in this article. But rather a special person, who may appear strong that may like to be around such people. Thank you for Sharing

    • Triciads

      Deena ~ Your description of a “strong woman” was more inspiring,accurate and uplifting than the article. Thank you for your research and thoughtful consideration. Your comment was better than the article. Very good

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