Ladies, it’s hard to find, but true love is out there and you will find it if you wait and truly try. While you do wait for your knight in shining armor, maybe avoid kissing every frog that comes your way. Instead, wait for the one who does these things and actually cares about you.
1. Someone who can’t wait to spend time with you
Avoid the guys who make excuses for not finding time to meet you. Find the guy who has made it his mission to spend time with you and make you feel like you are a huge part of his life.
2. Someone who texts or calls when he says he will
Beware of the flake! If he doesn’t answer calls or replies to texts only after it’s too late, he doesn’t value you enough, and he should definitely be shown the door.
3. Someone who openly professes his feelings for you
If he truly cares about you he’ll make you feel like the luckiest woman alive and openly express his feelings towards you.
4. Someone who cares when you’re upset
When you’re down in the dumps he should be the one picking you up and making you feel better. Even if he’s the one who caused you to be upset, if he owns up to it and comforts you, he’s surely a keeper.
5. Someone who misses you when you’re not around
Your presence should mean everything to him. While he shouldn’t be clingy or over-possessive, if he longs for your company when you aren’t there, he cherishes you and so should you.
6. Someone who is proud of who you are
If he brags about you around his friends, or beams with pride when you achieve something, he has your best interests at heart. If he isn’t jealous of your achievements or you occupying most of the limelight, he’s a keeper.
7. Someone who can embrace your flaws
If he looks at you like the only woman in the room, despite you not feeling your best, you have made the right choice. He’s your man if your acne, morning breath, and crazy hair don’t make him run the other way.
8. Someone who stands up for you
If you’ve reached a low point in your life and are struggling, a man worth your time will stand by you and comfort you through your recovery. If he makes your problems disappear just by being there, he is yours to keep.
9. Someone who compliments you
He should be good for your self-esteem, not be detrimental to it. If he makes you feel like he has eyes only for you, you should definitely cherish this man. Someone who constantly puts you down is not worth your time.
10. Someone who makes you feel amazing overall
If you feel happy waking up next to him and every day seems like a blessing because he’s in your life, you’ve chosen well.
11. Someone who can’t live without you
When he truly has become so used to your presence, that life seems incomplete without you, he’s probably the one for you.