#1: Emotions need to change before love can return.
Even if the potential for love remains, when a woman has lost that loving feeling, words must be spoken and actions must be taken to directly interact with her emotions. Regardless of what happened to case the breakup in the first place, whether it was cheating or lying or something similar, genuine forgiveness cannot be experienced unless the heart and soul truly forgives.
#2: Some words and actions convey different meaning in and out of love.
Buying a box of candy or a bouquet of flowers could very well convey true love in a healthy relationship, but most genuine love associated with these types of gifts and gestures is lost when they are clearly attempts at redemption. Yet, little things like these can be somewhat effective if they are actually selfless, and if nothing is expected in return whatsoever.
#3: Keep remembering loving memories, but make more in the present and future.
Again, recalling how you fell in love, why you fell in love, and what you did while you were in love can be both effective or ineffective depending on the circumstances. Loving memories can provide opportunities for enhanced emotions if they are followed up with meaningful words and actions in the present, but if memories are the main argument for revisiting a failed relationship then it will be doomed to fail again.
#4: Both partners must be self-secure for the relationship to be fully secure.
What’s more, oftentimes a partner is the cause of their partner’s insecurities, so this self-reflection regarding self-esteem must go beyond only yourself. Be sure to give this some careful thought and insight; even doing something like ignoring someone’s comments and questions a lot can cause real mental and emotional damage over time.
#5: Fresh starts are always compelling, and often beneficial.
Again, this means there really needs to be several very good reasons to give a relationship another go as opposed to simply giving a different relationship a first go. However, if the love was pure and it could really be experienced again, then that’s reason enough to contemplate on its own.
#6: The right thing to do might not be easy, but it will be clear.
#7: Being underestimated is a huge turn-off.
#8: Sometimes there are just better reasons to leave rather than stay.
#9: If one person doesn’t feel the love, then a loving relationship is impossible.